I currently reside in Los Angeles and have been a Professional Dominatrix
for 20 years and continue to hold a stable of slaves. Most submissives who
come to Me have done their research and are highly compatible. Over time,
I've refined My style and demeanor into exactly what I am now. I know what I
want out of a scene, and I go after it. The adrenaline, the endorphins that
I get while playing - I love it. This world is Mine to rule, and I revel in
being served. Some of My slaves have even earned a special place in My
heart. If I ever leave the pro-scene, BDSM will always remain part of My
personal life. I can't live without it. It's who I am.
My journey into BDSM began in New York at 21, while still in college. A
group of us frequented the city's popular S/M clubs, where I started as a
voyeur, completely captivated. When My friends lost interest, I kept going
alone, drawn deeper into the world. I was intrigued and wanted to
participate, but didn't know how to get involved. So, I chose BDSM as the
subject of a research paper in college. That decision led Me to interviewing
Mistresses and even making a few "cameo" appearances. I was struck by the
intellect, creativity, and absolute authority of these women. These
Mistresses didn't just play with power - they owned it.
When I returned for a second interview, I stepped into My own dominance,
commanding slaves to fulfill My every whim and punishing them if they didn't
meet My standards. I was a natural. The power belonged to Me, I loved it and
I knew I deserved it. This wasn't just a revelation — it was home.
I took a good long look at My life up to that point and realized that I had
been dominating men on some level all along. I used to humiliate one
boyfriend by making him do a strip show for Me, and then whipping him with a
belt if he wasn't "dedicated" enough. Another time, I took a boyfriend to
the mall dressed head to toe in women's clothing. I wonder how that shaped
their lives?
Back in college, My BDSM paper left a roomful of dropped jaws - and earned
Me an A+. More importantly, it led Me to My first dungeon, where seasoned
Mistresses showed Me the ropes, so to speak, and a Domme was born. I built a
stable of slaves in New York but was ready to expand My sadistic horizons
out west in Los Angeles.
After a brief time at the famous Velvet Underground, I found My place at
Lady Laura's Dominion, where I became immersed in the BDSM scene. The
Dominion introduced Me to L.A.'s world of power and submission, and I loved
it. I stayed for four years before setting out on My own.
By 2000, I had joined some of the most elite names in BDSM. Renting space
from Simone Justice in Hollywood, I became part of the legendary Justice
League alongside Simone, Gemini, Nicolette Rule, and Domina M. Those years
shaped Me into the Dominatrix I am today and forged lifelong bonds.
In 2005, I co-wrote How to Be a Dominant Diva, which received national
attention with features on The O'Reilly Factor, Redbook Magazine, David Lee
Roth Radio, and Kevin & Bean. How to Be a Dominant Diva helps couples
explore eroticism, role-play, and power exchange in ways that are thrilling
but never intimidating.
